SISTAH, RUN A CHECK!!!

GREETINGS & BLESSINGS TO ALL THAT FIND THE TIME,

I, THE SUGGABEE HUMBLY THANK YOU, BUT RIGHT NOW FELLAS WHILE I WOULD LOVE FOR U TO READ ON, FALL BACK A SEC, THIS ONE IS A MESSAGE TO MY SISTAHS. TODAY, JANUARY 20, MY YOUNGEST SON TURNS 1 YEAR OLD AND AS I LOOK AT HIM AND MY ELDEST SON, I WONDER WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS FOR HIM, FOR THEM. WELL, I SHOULD SAY WHO THE FUTURE HOLDS FOR HIM AND I FIND MYSELF WORRIED. THE NATION AS A WHOLE IS FALLING APART AND WHILE I HATE TO ADMIT IT LADIES IT IS TRULY OUR FAULT. WE WERE THE FOUNDATION FOR WHAT OUR COUNTRY WOULD BECOME. IN THE WORDS OF GIRL MELANIE, WE ARE THE CEO OF THE FAMILY AND WE HAVE FAILED MISERABLY. WE MUST TAKE A LONG LOOK AT OURSELVES, OUR DAUGHTERS, WHAT, WHO ARE WE RAISING THEM TO BE? WHAT KIND OF EXAMPLE ARE WE SETTING? I AM ASHAMED, SO LET’S RUN A CHECK, SHALL WE? BACK IN THE DAY A MAN HAD TO COURT A WOMAN JUST TO TAKE HER ON A WALK, HE HAD TO WAIT MONTHS FOR A KISS. WE WERE MODEST ABOUT OUR BODIES, APPALLED IF A MAN EVEN BROUGHT UP THE SUBJECT OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. NOW DTF, HOOKING UP, IS ALL TO COMMON IN OUR CHILDREN LET ALONE OUR WOMEN. ORAL SEX IN THE SCHOOLS IS NOTHING, IT’S NOT REALLY EVEN SEX AS FAR AS OUR GIRLS AND WOMEN ARE CONCERNED. WE AS A WHOLE HAVE MADE IT ENTIRELY TOO TOO EASY FOR MEN, BOYS, TO RUN OVER US, UP IN US, AROUND US FOR WAY TOO LONG. OUR LITTLE GIRLS DROP IT LIKE ITS HOT, WANT TO BE SEXY AND THINK BITCH OR HOE IS A BADGE OF HONOR. LET ME TELL YOU IT IS NOT! A MAN DOES NOT WANT TO MARRY A WOMAN THAT WILL ALLOW HERSELF TO BE DISRESPECTED IN EVERY WAY. A MAN WORTH SOMETHING DOES NOT WANT A WOMAN HE CAN CLASSIFY AS A HOEBAG OR BUSTO. WE WALK AROUND HALF NAKED, IN THE CLUB CRAWLING ALL OVER THE FLOOR LIKE ANIMALS, SINGING ABOUT OUR GOODIES AND HOW GOOD OUR HEAD IS, AND THEN WE HAVE QUICKIES IN THE BATHROOM LIKE THIS MAN WILL MAGICALLY LOVE US CAUSE WE HAD THE BEST BATHROOM STALL COOCHIE EVER. NO LADIES IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY. WE USE LANGUAGE IN PUBLIC AND AROUND OUR CHILDREN THAT IS VULGAR AND MUST I SAY IT UNLADYLIKE. WE SMOKE BLUNTS WITH OUR CHILDREN IN THE ROOM. WE DRESS LIKE STREETWALKERS ASS AND ALL OUT LIKE AN ADVERTISEMENT. WE WEAVE THEM UP AND DRESS THEM LIKE MINI CLONES OF SHE’NE’NE AND THEN ARE SURPRISED WHEN THEY HAVE NO RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES, OR FOR US.WE ALLOW THEM TO SEE US WITH DIFFERENT MEN AND TELL THEM TO CALL HIM UNCLE OR THIS IS MOMMIES SPECIAL FRIEND. I HAVE HEARD WOMEN TELL THEIR DAUGHTERS YOU DON’T WANT NO GEEK, GET YOU A BALLER. (WHAT) A GEEK IS WHAT THEY NEED! WE TELL OUR DAUGHTERS NOT TO GIVE AWAY THEIR LOVE FOR FREE. (REALLY)? TEACH HER TO BE A HOE EARLY RIGHT. MIGUEL SAYS IT ALL IN HIS SONG QUICKIE (I DON’T WANNA BE LOVED, I DON’T WANNA BE LOVED). THIS IS THE MESSAGE THEY ARE GETTING AND IT IS STICKING, SO WHEN OR IF SOMEONE ACTUALLY LOVES THEM, THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE IT OR LOVE BACK. THE SONGS WE ALLOW THEM TO HEAR, THE VIDEOS WE ALLOW THEM TO SEE, THE SHOWS WE ALLOW THEM TO WATCH ARE BRAINWASHING OUR SONS AND OUR DAUGHTERS AND OUR GIRLS THINK THIS IS COOL. THEN, WE LET SOME OF THESE MEN ABUSE US, USE US AND DISCARD US AND WHAT DO WE DO; WE BEG THEM TO LOVE US BACK, WE BUY THEM BACK, WE SUPPORT THEM, BUY THEIR WEED AND PS3 GAMES WHILE THEY CHEAT AND ACT LIKE WE AIN’T SHIT TO THEM. IS THIS WHAT WE WANT? WHAT WE IMAGINE FOR OUR DAUGHTERS, TO BE VIDEO VIXENS, BUT NOT WIVES, TO BE CLUB QUEENS AND NOT MOTHERS ( REAL MOTHERS). THEN WE WONDER WHY OUR MEN ARE THE WAY THEY ARE, WHY IT IS SOOOO HARD FOR US TO FIND A MAN OF SUBSTANCE. WELL LADIES IT IS BECAUSE WE ARE NO LONGER WOMEN OF SUBSTANCE, WE ARE NO LONGER VIRTUOUS. ARE YOU UPSET YET? DID I HIT A NERVE? IF SO YOU NEED TO BE READING THIS AND IF NOT CONGRATULATIONS, YOU ARE ONE OF THE FEW. WE HAVE ALLOWED OURSELVES TO BECOME THE BARE MINIMUM, THE BOTTOM, THE JUMP OFF. WE HAVE MADE IT SO WE SETTLE FOR OTHER WOMEN’S HUSBANDS, WE SETTLE FOR QUICKIES AND 3 AM BOOTY CALLS AND NO RELATIONSHIP, NO COMMITMENT OF ANY KIND. WE ALLOW MEN TO RUN BACK AND FORTH BETWEEN US AND PLAY US AGAINST EACH OTHER, HAVE BABIES ON US AND WE FIGHT FOR THIS TREATMENT. WE HAVE BABIES TO KEEP THEM AND THEN REGRET THE CHILDREN WHEN HE LEAVES US. WHO ARE WE? WE SHOW THIS TO OUR CHILDREN, SONS AND DAUGHTERS AND THEY REGRETFULLY REPEAT THE CYCLE, THUS OUR BREAKDOWN BEGINS OR CONTINUES……I AM AFRAID OF WHAT IS TOO BECOME FOR MY SONS WHEN THEY ACTUALLY WANT TO SETTLE DOWN WITH A NICE GOOD GIRL. WILL THEY EVEN EXIST? WELL AT LEAST A FEW THAT I KNOW OF WILL BE GOOD GIRLS AND I AM SURE YOU KNOW A FEW THAT WILL BECOME GOOD WOMEN. ON A GRANDER SCALE THOUGH, WHAT WILL WE BECOME AS A PEOPLE?  WE HAVE LOST WHAT IT MEANS TO BE THE CEO OF OUR FAMILY, WE HAVE FORGOTTEN HOW IMPORTANT THAT JOB IS. NO THAT CAREER IS …….NOW IF THIS DOES NOT APPLY, KUDOS TO YOU, YOU ARE HELPING HOLD OUR COMMUNITY TOGETHER BY A STRING AND I APPLAUD YOU. BUT MOST OF US…. SINCERELY SISTAHS ……. RUN … A… CHECK! PLEASE, BEFORE IT IS TRULY TO LATE. LADIES, WE ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT EXAMPLE, WE ARE THE CEO… WHAT ARE OUR CHILDREN LEARNING FROM US? BELIEVE ME THEY ARE ALWAYS WATCHING. OUR LITTLE GIRLS ARE LEARNING WHAT TYPE OF WOMEN TO BE BY WATCHING US AND OUR SONS ARE LEARNING WHAT A WOMAN IS OR SHOULD BE BY WATCHING US, HE IS LEARNING HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN BY HOW WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO BE TREATED, OUR DAUGHTERS ARE LEARNING HOW TO BE TREATED BY HOW WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO BE TREATED.  SO I BEG YOU SISTAHS RUN A CHECK AND ASK YOURSELF THE QUESTION….ARE YOU SETTING THE BEST EXAMPLE POSSIBLE?

LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE YOUR CHILDREN

SINCERELY THE SUGGABEE

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